SEXY SOUL LIGHT SINGLES GLEAM IN 2015

By TyLeishia Douglass

Ladies, how often do we get to celebrate the single men and woman? Not often right? Let me first deal with single men not often having places or spaces they can show off their happy, sexy and single life. Sure, there are several sites on social media and dating services for them but very limited.  I have found that a small number of television shows be it sitcoms or game shows like, "Two and A Half Men" was a comedy about men, women, sex, dating, divorce, mothers, single parenthood, money, love and friendship. I liked it because it showed that no matter what you can still live happy, healthy and sexy single lives.

The statistics for relationships, marriages and divorce are amazingly increasing it’s no wonder if everybody here on earth is single. In fact R. Miller of Bloomberg News Reports that, the percentage of adult Americans who have never married has raised to 30.4 percent from 22.1 percent in 1976. Can you imagine what it is all over the world by now? Still there is nothing wrong with living or choosing to live the single life.

Now, let me talk to the single ladies for a second. We are often sported and supported as far as on television commercials for dating or chat line infomercials. I found that single men don't receive half as much publicity in that manner as we single woman. Would you agree? Uh oh, see this is what I mean when I say “The single life” is not that promoted. It’s so not popular but for many of us who are happy and loving it, it’s time we “Turn Up Singles.”

So what did I do? I created (TUT) TurnUpTyLeishia #Tut4Singles #Tut4Men

It’s okay to choose how you want to single or married. The question is you doing your thing and doing it well? The ball is in my court so I decided to create a place and some space for us singles but in particular a spot for single men called, (TUT4Men). There they are featured sharing their photos, short description and caption of them living a happy, healthy, and fun and loving their single life. This site is not a dating service so let’s be clear on that. It s blog where singles are celebrated and are happy living our lives like it’s golden and not like its stolen.

So what is TUT4MEN? #TUT4MEN

You want a hot boy? You want a single, sexy, intelligent and eloquent yet tactful & tasteful eye candy? Then you want a “TUT Man” Gentleman are you a Turn Up TyLeishia’s Man? Who is he?

He is a man who first has learned and understood exactly what his own needs are to satisfy himself which gives him the confidence to accept and succeed in what he needs to complete himself in wholeness. What would this be? “Love”

He is a man who is not afraid to learn from mistakes and be able to release himself from practicing making the same ones repeatedly over and over again.

He is a man that knows how to make a good beginning and a good ending. He does not bleed poison into a new start from an old finish. He welcomes a fresh here and now with no regrets or guilt.

He is a man that is not afraid to open his heart because he understands though he may be single, he may find the right one for him, but if his heart is closed he forfeits that possibility.

He understands that physical attraction alone is not enough and very short lived. But finding a soul mate should he decide to retire himself from the single life, his physical, emotional, mental and spiritual are all in sync and ready to unify with his soul mate.

This is (TUT) For Men who said living the single life can’t be fun?  It’s not a bore it’s all that and more! #TurnUpT4Men to learn more about (TUT) visit http://tyleishia1blog.wordpress.com/category/turn-up-tyleishia-tut/

My bottom line celebrating singles

Now I know your saying but this sounds like a hook up to get with a single guy. The point is if he chooses to ever retire from the single life this is all the fun and healthy way in my opinion celebrate all those things that made him share his happiness with someone someday who will share with other singles to celebrate the wait and don’t depreciate its value in what you have to offer someone someday. 

#SexySoulLightSinglesGleamIn2015
Single ladies, #TurnUpSinglesMingles
Single Men #TurnUp4MEN
Single Life #TUT


**Please note that TUT or any of its entities are not a dating service nor do its sites promote dating services in any manner. This blog and its categories are for men and woman to share or be promoted by permission of participants and the author for promotional purposes only. TUT and its administrators are not liable for online glitches due to malfunctions on or in the electronic side of any social media electronic sites or its entities. **

TyLeishia L. Douglass is a native of Baltimore Maryland and a voice of hope for this generation. Douglass is an author, online radio talk host, promoter, public speaker and published author. TyLeishia is on a mission to encourage and empower others. Her imprint is embedded in the hearts of her short story readers. One of her personal favorite mottos is, "Helping to make a difference one page at a time." TyLeishia earned publishing credits from "Student Life Magazine", was featured on LA Talk Live “Perspective’s Corner” with Rhona “Rho” Bennett and credits from the soul diva songstress and life coach and member of the group EnVogue (The Real Funky Diva’s). TyLeishia's poetry and comments are also featured onaskrho.com. The Baltimore Times featured Douglass online as Indie Soul Entrepreneur of the Week which speaks of her writings and blogs as self-help tools which she shares worldwide. TyLeishia is poised to offer solace and confidence to motivate others in their personal struggles through the poignant story of the main character of her novel, "Jewels Declaring New Miracles." New books are underway and additional short stories by TyLeishia are available on Amazon.com, Kobo, Smashwords and Barnes & Noble’s. Douglass continue her education and aims to achieve and earn her AA Degree in Mass Production and Communications in hopes that her online blog radio talk show, “JOTU & GEMS” will take flight in a future worldwide televised broadcast which serves as a platform that supports all arts in and around communities.

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NOT ANOTHER RESOLUTION BUT A S.M.A.R.T. GOAL

By Priscilla Danita Robinson

With the arrival of the New Year everyone has at least one resolution in mind.  However as the year goes on most people have either giving up their resolution all together or they have changed it to better fit their more realistic needs. I’m not trying to deter you from change I’m trying to get you to understand that the problem isn’t the resolution the problem is the plan. I recently learned about something called a S.M.A.R.T Goal and while I’m a be honest in saying I hated learning it at the time, when I sat down to really think about all the things I failed to complete the lesson wasn’t so bad. What I learned is that in order to ensure that I achieved my goal I had to have more than the goal itself. It’s not even that you need a plan because everyone has a plan. Your success lies in details. And that’s where the S.M.A.R.T goal comes into place.

S. Specific. This is the easiest of the steps for me because it is being clear about what you want. It doesn’t really matter if you goal is to stop smoking, start working out, find a better job or become more socially active. It’s your goal and it’s important because it’s the thing that you want to change/achieve for yourself.

M. Measurable. This is the part of the goal that lets you know you are your on the right path. Let's just say your goal is to become healthy. The measurable part would be in saying that you are going to progress from being able to exercise for 30 minutes to an hour.  This is also the step that you need to focus on what it is you already have to help you towards your goal. If you already have a gym membership or if you have videos or cookbooks.

A. Attainable. Measuring something and having it be attainable are completely different even though on the surface they look the same. When you’re making sure that it’s attainable you need to make sure anything needed for your goal to succeed is available. For example if you say you want to get in shape within 6 months you need to make sure that you have a workout routine in place or time to actually spend in the gym. For me this is the most important step because it’s the one that can either make or break you success.

R. Relevant. Making sure your goal is relevant to your life is the step that helps motivate you to stick with it. When ever you feel like giving up all you have to do is think back to why it was important to start in the first place. No more how small or big your goal is you had a personal reason for starting it and it's best to keep it in your mind.

T. Time Bound. Setting a realistic time for your goal to be completed. I say realistic because I have seen some people say that they went to jump from a size 20 to a size 6 in 5 months. I understand that there are some extreme ways that that could happen however you want to make sure that you set a time frame that is safe and allows room for minor set backs. Factor in what's needed and if you need to set smaller goals inside your overall goal to keep you on track. An example could be decreasing your cigarette intake by 2 every month. With an over all goal of quitting within 6 months. 

So that's the S.M.A.R.T Goal. I know that this article is all about breaking the New Year's resolution curse but this model can be applied to anything in your life. No matter what you wish to accomplish I wish you much success. 

Priscilla D Robinson is the Author of Love's Moodswings: The Discovery, the Choice, and the Surrender to Love. Her debut book is a collection of three short stories that focus on different forms of love. Recently she began the task of writing down what her mind showed her and thus began her writing journey. When she is not off in a dream world she lives in Connecticut with her daughter. Robinson is currently a student at the University of Bridgeport for a bachelor's degree in Human Service. Her favorite saying is “the sky is always purple somewhere in the world” which means anything is possible if you know where to look for it.

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